Dear Agony Aunt,
I am at the stage now where my breasts are growing.

I have this awful pain and feels like a chunk of banana behind my nipple that is HORRENDOUS!
It always feels sore but I havent started my menstrual cycle/Periods and actually have hardly any boobs!

What can I do to relieve the pain?
It makes me feel embarrassed because I hold them with discomfort!

Please help me agony aunt!
From
Anonymous

Dear Anonymous, 

Ouch! It hurts, right! Well, telling an older female person is the best option, sister, mum, aunt, friend's mum, an older friend, anyone. They'll all have gone through it too and they can help. Trust me. Don't be embarressed. Its natural and just means you're healthy! Theres probably not much you can do, unless your mum or whoever says you can take painkillers or something.

Megz x

Dear Megz,
This is a hard letter to write. I'm being bullied. They kick me, punch, me, push me, tip my school bag out and harrass me. So I cut myself. I'm not proud of it, but I want to die. I can't tell anyone.My friends know but I've sworn them to secrecy. They say if I do tell they'll kill me. I'm hoping with all my heart that they don't go on this website.
Please help me.
Scared. x

Dear Scared,
Oh my gosh. Ok. Obviously, bullying is HORRIBLE. Scared, tell someone. ANYONE. It doesn't matter what they say. Just tell your parents. Tell them. Telling someone makes a huge difference. I mean it. Go tell someone. NOW. If you can't do it, ask your friends to. Honestly, it will help. Please tell someone.
Megz xx

Dear Megz,
When i go to secondary school i will go with some of my friends but what if i make new
friends and dont seem to go around with my friends from priamary school?
Do you think they will feel left out or will they make new friends? Or if this does happen
to me what do think i should do in both situations?
Thanks
Clo xx

Dear Clo,
I'm having the same problem. I also feel like I'm drifting further apart from my best friends. But when you're at secondary, you'll meet new friends, maybe you'll see some of your old. But its always good to keep in touch with old friends, for example having a set day to do something together such as going down a coffee shop, to the park or over eachothers houses each week. Another good thing to do is to write down your phone number or e-mail, or even address and give them out at school so everyone can keep in touch, if its sending texts, e-mails or letters.
You and me will always stay in touch (I HOPE!!)
Lots and Lots and Lots of Love (You get more love cos ur my best friend ;D )
Megz xxxxxx (And more kisses :D )

Dear Megz,
I have this boyfriend that I really, REALLY love but we haven't told our family about our relationship because my brother and his sister are like BEST FRIENDS. So what should I do? I don't like hiding the secret but I just really don't want to tell my family. Hope you have something to help me, i'd REALLY appreciate it.
From MagicalMia x

Dear MagicalMia,
Aww, it's really sweet that you are so close to your boyfriend. This may not be very helpful to you but I think you should just gradually tell your family, talk about your boyfriend casually and then just mention that your really close, stuff like that. I think if you suddenly blurt out: I'm going out with 'whoever' because if you start to talk about him more then they might start to suspect it anyway. Always tell the truth and don't be afraid to speak.
Lots of love
Megz x

Dear Megz,
I just found out my Dad hasn't got me a card for my birthday tomorrow. I feel really upset. Should I let it go? Or should I tell him that it made me upset?
From
Birthday Girl 17 x

Dear Birthday Girl,
hmmm.. Why didn't he get you a card? That's strange.. Maybe he's planning it as a suprise? You'll find out tomorrow. But if he hasn't got you a card, just ask him why, and if the answer isn't good enough, tell him that it hurts that he hasn't got you a card. It'll be okay. Happy Birthday!
Love Megz x

Dear Megz,
I've got a boyfriend. My two best friends love him too, though. One sits next to him and laughs at him and stuff. I'm trying not to be jelous, what shall I do? I mean, I want to keep my best friends AND my boyfriend!
From
Worried x

Dear Worried,
Maybe invite your friends round for tea one night or for a sleepover and just casually mention your boyfriend. Tell them that he's yours and ask them politely if they could back off a little because your feeling a little uneasy. Tell them you're sorry, but it's really been eating you up and you need to get it out. If they're your true friends, they'll listen and accept it.
Hope This Helps!
Megz x

Dear Megz,
Errmm, well, I hugged this guy today.
He's been kinda stalking me and my friend.
He's older than us. He said if I hugged him once he'd leave me alone but he was hitting on my friend and he said he'll never stop now. What Shall I do?
From
Hugged x

Dear Hugged,
Tell an teacher. Maybe he's just having a laugh and he's been dared by his friend or something. Just tell a teacher that he's being annoying and he wont leave you alone.
Hope this helps!
Megz xxx